I interviewed my dad for my blog. I actually had a hard time
choosing which parent to do because they both would have been great candidates.
However, I am glad I chose my dad because he gave good, quality answers that I was
not expecting. Here is just the
highlight’s of the interview:
Dad
said, “Well, I guess it started with your older sister.”
What do you mean?
Dad, “She
wanted to play so we signed her up when she was 9 in a rec-league. Then you
became interested and wanted to play. So it just evolved from there.”
Did you ever hesitate or were unwilling to let us play?
Dad, “No!
I mean of course we were worried that you would hurt your knee or ankle, but we
wanted y'all
to have fun. So no, we never hesitated to let you or your sister’s play.”
How did you feel when I told you I had forgotten my shoes at
a AAU tournament?
Dad, “I
don’t quiet remember but I’m sure I was upset at first. I remember your mom
being much more upset than I was.”
Why didn't you just let me sit out that game?
Dad, “That
came to mind…I knew though that it would hurt your team if you had to sit out.
So I had to do what I had to do. But there was a lesson in there for you that
you learned. Don’t forget your stuff!!!”
I feel like I not only understand
my dad a little more but I also now know how my families love for basketball
started. My uncle played basketball when he was in High School. My dad tells me
all the time that he was fantastic. And that if he ever got you under the
basket, it was over. I guess basketball has been in my family ever since I can
remember.
The other day when I was sorting
through some of my old play toys and books, I found a book that someone had
given me. It had a small, little girl on the front with a basketball in her
hand. The spin was cracked and some pages were missing. After asking my mom
where it came from, she told me that my papa had given that book to my older
sister and I when we were really young. She then went on to tell me that my
sister and I never went anywhere without it. I took from that that I have
always loved basketball and always will.
The interview was a success I believe.
I mean we were sitting in a small, run down Mexican restaurant in south Huntsville
when I interviewed him, can’t get much better than that. There were some
questions, however, that I wish my dad would have gone into more detail, such
like when I asked how a situation made him feel he would simply shrug his
shoulders and give me a one word answer. May be that is one aspect I can work
on is somehow getting the person I’m questioning to be more descriptive. There
were times when we laughed about things. Case in point, when I was 8 years old,
I had just started practice and was terrible at everything. I challenged my dad
to a pick-up game in our driveway. I knew I had no chance but I wasn't going to
let that stop me. We were playing for a little while until all of the sudden I heard
this really obnoxious sound come from behind me. I turned around just in time
to see my dad trip over his feet and face plant into the pavement. Luckily he wasn't
hurt badly just a few scratches here and there. I know one thing is for sure,
family and basketball go hand in hand with my family and I.
Excellent responses from your dad. You say that the "how did you feel about" questions were the most difficult to get elaborate responses to, and I wonder if that is common with other subjects. Do you think it was the interview or the subject of sport or maybe elaborating on feelings doesn't come naturally to him? It's hard for most of us!
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